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Our teenagers’ lives are often a closed book to us and no matter how hard we try they simply will not let us open the book and read what is inside. But how are we supposed to protect out children and help them to develop into self-sufficient and confident adults if we do not know what they are doing, where they are going, who they are hanging out with, what they are thinking and how they are feeling?Well, here are four tips that might help to open that closed book at least enough to take a glimpse inside.Tip 1 – Start when your kids are young. It is much easier to keep a relationship rolling along than it is to start it up in the first place and this is especially true when it comes to our kids. If we start literally from the day they are born and build a close and strong relationship then life will be fairly easy when they reach those difficult teenage years. However, if we maintain our distance from our kids, or simply do not have time to get close to them, when they are young then it is going to become increasingly difficult to do so as they get older.Tip 2 – Look for common ground. We all have things which we like to do on our own or without our partner and one partner might enjoy playing bridge with friends while the other is out playing golf or fishing. But, it is also important for partners to share interests and to have some things, such as cooking, gardening or hiking which they enjoy doing together. This is not simply true of partners and should also extend to parents and children. So, find something, and preferably two or three things, which you and your kids can enjoy together and which gives you a common interest to talk about.Tip 3 – Listen to what your children say and keep an open mind. The teenage years are a time when children tend to form opinions very quickly and often without an adequate understanding of the subject to hand. This in turn means that they will often come out with comments which you find concerning or which you simply do not like or agree with. Take the time however to listen to what they have to say and try not to be judgmental. There is nothing wrong with telling them that do not agree with them or do not approve of something as long as you explain why and do not turn what you are saying into an attack on them.Tip 4 – Spend time with your children. One of the main concerns for most teenagers is that they do not get to spend enough time with their parents and this is often seen as a case of their parents simply not caring enough about what they are doing or how they are feeling. One significant result of this is that teenagers also often feel that they cannot talk to their parents when they have a problem and want some help.Many of us lead busy lives but were we talking about a client instead of our own child you can bet your bottom dollar that we would make the time needed to spend with that client. Well, our children are far more important than any client and so it should not really be too difficult to set aside some time each day, or at the very least each week, to devote ourselves solely to each of our children for a while.There are many ways to make sure that we are spending enough time with our kids and often it is simply a matter of organizing ourselves for efficiently. One simple way to achieve our aims is to make sure that the whole family sits down to dinner each evening and that this is a time to both eat and talk. Another way to spend time with your teen is to drive him to school each morning rather than let him ride the bus. Yet another suggestion is to play sport together once or twice a week. There are countless ways to make time for your teenagers if you put your mind to it.
Many college students, when they think of science, think of physics, chemistry, geology, biology, astronomy and other similar fields of study. Psychology, which is the study of the human psyche and of behavior, rarely comes to mind. But psychology is inherently scientific, which is why it is classified as a behavior science.
Like other scientists, psychologists hold a “scientific attitude,” meaning that every aspect of research is critically and skeptically examined, and all biases are purposefully ignored during the research process. As such, the scientific method plays an integral part in the process of psychological research.
The scientific method is a systematic approach to research that involves the use of critical observation and analysis as a means of drawing conclusions that explain the scientific findings resulting from testing a hypothesis based on initial observations. In other words, the scientific method involves the following steps:
1. Identifying a problem
2. Making an educated guess (or hypothesis) about a possible solution
3. Conducting an experiment to test the hypothesis
4. Analyzing and recording information collected during the experiment
5. Making a conclusion that explains the findings of the experiment.
Identifying a Problem
This first step is more complicated than one might think. First, the researcher must decide on the topic to be studied. Once a topic is chosen, the researcher needs to review all existing literature covering the topic of choice, including academic journals. government studies and psychology books. Doing so will help the researcher to understand what is already known about his or her topic. Many psychologists also will conduct an initial survey to gather basic information. Once all background research is completed the researcher is ready to form a testable hypothesis. Formulate a Hypothesis
A hypothesis takes vague ideas and translates them into a specific prediction about the relationship between variables. A good hypothesis uses specific language to identify a predicted cause and effect in a research study.
Testing the Hypothesis
To test a hypothesis, a researcher needs to create a study that will produce evidence to prove the hypothesis right or wrong. Psychologists, like other scientists, use two main forms of research to collect data: descriptive research and experimental research. Descriptive research involves observing and recording behavior and then using the recorded information to draw a conclusion. This type of research is typically seen in animal psychology and case studies.
Correlational studies, which are similar to descriptive research, identify relationships or correlations between non-manipulated materials. In experimental research, the psychologist artificially changes one of the variables and observes how this affects the other unchanged variable.
Analyzing Data and Drawing Conclusions
Once all the information regarding the study has been compiled, it must be examined. Using statistics, the researcher can summarize findings and decide if they support the hypothesis and then draw a conclusion, which is often publicized in academic journals.
The scientific method is important in psychology research because it provides a clear and understandable means of using collected information to draw verifiable conclusions.
Despite the fact that Homeschooling is legal in every state, the choice to homeschool your children is not one which you should take lightly. Extensive research and discussion will be necessary if you are to make the right decision. But, how do you tell whether homeschooling will be the correct choice for your children?
Here are 6 questions which you must ask yourself when you are considering homeschooling as an option for your children.
1. Am I happy spending almost all of my day with my children?
An important reason for opting for homeschooling is frequently that people love their children and want what is thought to be best for them. Also, they really do enjoy spending time together with their children, which is a good thing since you will be spending all of your time with them. If you find that your children irritate you fairly easily then homeschooling may not be a good match for you.
2. Will questions worry me?
Homeschooling parents are generally asked a constant stream of questions about things like what curriculum they are using and about the affect which homeschooling has on their childrens’ development of good social skills. If you choose to homeschool your children then it helps if you do not mind answering the same old questions over and over again.
3. How can I find out all about homeschooling?
Begin by checking out the books at your public library where there is most likely a large selection of books that will furnish everything you will need to know. The staff at the library may even know whether there are any homeschoolers in the area, because the vast majority of homeschoolers rely heavily upon the library for source materials.
4. Am I going to have a support system available?
Locating support groups of other homeschoolers is very important and is frequently be done by getting onto the internet and searching for ‘homeschool groups in (your state)’ or ‘homeschooling groups in (your city)’. Homeschooling co-ops are available in a lot of cities as well as plenty opportunities for families to get together and have a bit of fun.
5. What do I do when I have other unanswered questions?
Having located some families which already homeschool you need to ask them about the advantages and disadvantages of homeschooling. The majority of parents will be open about their reasons for deciding upon homeschooling and will be quite happy to share their experience and help you in making an informed decision. Question them about the types of problems they ran into when starting out and about things like how you should go about deciding on a curriculum and whether or not you should be worried about socialization for your children.
6. Which curriculum should I choose?
The curriculum choices open to you are wide in terms of both variety and often in terms of the price you will have to pay. Although you can have a ‘home school’ by choosing books which are very similar to those used in public schools, you can also have a homeschool without following a set curriculum. The books which you found in the library earlier will hopefully explain the different methods and given you a good idea of just what your children should be studying in each grade.
If you are contemplating homeschooling your children then finding the answers to the 6 questions laid out here should help you to make an informed decision. Although not everybody will decide to homeschool after researching this option, if you want to have a greater involvement in the education of your children then homeschooling may well be right for you.
For more information and resources then visit http://www.homeschoolcirriculum.info

